So - J removed himself from consideration
which didn't surprise me
He bowed out gracefully with a kind excuse
but the truth is- there wasn't enough there to hold us together and interest each other long term
and we both felt it
and I wish more people would make that choice
instead of plowing ahead.
or hedging their bets while they look for something that's a better fit.
and I still got that awesome first kiss out of it - which was fun.
so
back into the fray
He's out there
I know it
respect to you both! honesty is the best thing but hard to do. I worst part is hurting the other person. Your man is out there and you will find him I am shore.
ReplyDeleteHugs Ashly xx
dating is hard, isn't it?
ReplyDeleteThank you -- yes -- he is out there
ReplyDeleteclearly he's hiding.
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He IS out there...I have every confidence that you will bump into Him...fall into Him...trip over Him (laughing)...and BAM...
ReplyDeleteYou'll be with the One you are meant for. It means kissing a lot of possibilities, doesn't it? Still, kissing is nice. :)
I'm sorry J isn't the one, and that the Man has taken himself out of contention...know that I'm pulling for you...
Hugs,
nilla
It is such a slow slow process finding the right one. But .. You know he is out there.. Just keep that in mind.
ReplyDeleteBest of luck.. and some patience tossed in there too~~!