it leaves you open to criticism
to unwelcome advice
it leaves you open to others thinking they know you better than they do
and when I get that advice
I usually let it roll off my back
I might roll my eyes
but today
I received an order
from a Dom to me
passed on by his submissive
and I have to be honest
it went right through me
I read it to Tex and he wasn't pleased about it either.
I am not going to out anyone in particular on this
or discuss what was said
because the issue is not with what was ordered
but the fact that I was issued an order at all
and I'm bothered by the fact that the submissive was ordered to do it
rather than have him contact me directly
so I will go on record now
to say
If you have advice or a comment?
bring it
I will consider it
If you have a directive?
I recommend you email it to Tex (through me is fine beatricebuscando@gmail.com)
and explain to him why you feel you have the right to direct HIS submissive
and see how that goes over
Wow...that's kind of shocking, isn't it? Kind of crosses a line, really. My Master would not be thrilled about it either. Sorry--this sort of thing is very upsetting, isn't it? I'd be all mad and flustered and mad and nervous and...it would make me a wreck, actually. To be ordered to do something by someone I was not in relationship with. I'm too emo and it would wig me the fuck out. (and them Master would weigh in on it and be upset that I got upset and say "wft, why are you listening to anyone else but ME?"...
ReplyDeletesending hugs and shoulder bumpage that this isn't more than a wee bump in your week.
nilla
Beatrice,
ReplyDeleteI have a ridiculously long answer to this, so I put it on my blog. Please come read it. I can't even summarize it.
I think I understand why you might be upset and yet I see another side to it.
I'd be curious to hear what Tex thinks and how the rest of your readers respond.
-sin
its not really the done thing..but Dom's are human after all. Know your audience I say. and yes Sin..i think there is a sexy side to this, but i guess thats all down to perspective.
ReplyDeleteIgnore it if its unwanted attention.
Its a bit respect less. "non te nothi" its Latin and it works well
ReplyDeletehugs Ashly xx
I haven't gotten that one but I've gotten the dom telling me what to tell BG to do.
ReplyDelete(riiiiiiiiiiight...)
It's rude, arrogant, and really, why would I be at all interested in the opinion of someone who doesn't have the balls to speak to me himself?
It wasn't a directive and no one was directed to do anything. It had nothing to do with Dom or submissive. It was an expression of concern. I am sorry it offended you, do as you will.
ReplyDeleteThank you David -- it was clearly conveyed differently than you intended. All the best. - B
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