So
I'm pretty sure that Tex is in his man cave
and it's easy
as a woman
I don't say as a sub -- but rather as a woman
to wonder
"what did I do to make him go so quiet?"
(and really how self-centered is it to assume that everything that happens in life is my fault -- as if I'm my own personal butterfly affect)
But it's inevitable to do it
I've sent text after text
and occasionally get a response
but
not much of one
and I wonder
what have I done?
so
this blog entry is about me tut tutting myself
because seriously - what could I have done all of these miles away?
when really
whatever is going on
is most likely weather
or family
or work
or just giving me the time to be a sick puppy
and nothing to do with me at all
so
I'm going to enjoy the free weekend of HBO/Cinemax on my cable (which I have DVRed to death) -- and do a bit of laundry
and wait for him to come out of the cave.
Interesting that you wrote this as I was just about to do my own "Man Cave" post. So to offer words of encouragement to yourself and to me , I will say that it has nothing to do with you and that it is just how some men are. They compartmentalize and go into Cave mode and it just it what it is. Now with my Master after almost 4 years you would think it gets easier, but it doesn't, although I think I handle it much better than I did long ago. Just keep busy and in your case REST. He will come out and all will be as it should be.
ReplyDeleteGood luck tomorrow and this week. You are in my prayers.
~faithful